Originally Posted by
godisawesome
I think this is the best approximation of where Rey was “done wrong”, provided we all understand that “done wrong” here means that she was underutilized, sabotaged, or ignored compared to the standards set by Luke and Anakin as protagonists of their trilogies:
1. Vulnerabilities in The Force Awakens: As much as this is her best film, by far (and I don’t think it can seriously be argued as close), it must be acknowledged that JJ Abrams and Lawrence Kasdan shackled the character to a mystery box regarding her parentage, power, and significance to the story. She still has her own character arc, mind you, and that character arc does actualize her and motivate her: she has a similar story to Luke in ANH, and while she never explicitly voices “I want to be a Jedi” like Luke does, it’s plainly shown that's her new goal, and she has a more ferocious personal feud with Kylo.
But… TFA *does* still define itself as a film making a lot of drama out of the Saga’s original central story - the Skywalker family drama. And even outside of that, Finn has a more complete and ambitious story than Rey for characters not connected to the Skywalker family drama. So when she has ambiguity and limbo as to her last and how she relates to the family drama, that puts the creators in a tight spot - the best answer to those mysteries almost HAS to be that she’s a Skywalker, or else she’s going to be at a “deficit” in significance to the larger story… and maybe more importantly, in the eyes of the audience and some creators…
2. Sexist character assassination in The Last Jedi. And speaking of creators also failing to view her as important enough for the story, Rian Johnson (and sadly much of LFL) clearly became apathetic and purely exploitive of the character after they decided not to make her a Skywalker. It was a worst case scenario for that choice, you might say; the vulnerability opened up by TFA was fully realized as a liability when Johnson and LFL came in and simply focused on two Skywalker dudes instead of her…
…But TLJ also went above and beyond in screwing her over. Finn got it worse, mind you; TLJ and LFL seem to genuinely despise him for standing in a spot they want for Kylo Ren. But much like Finn, Rey also gets her characterization stripped out, as well as any believable human psychology, once Kylo is sharing the screen with her. There’s no fucking excuse for TLJ creating a toxic, cancerous, and ultimately fatal (for Kylo as well as Rey’s popularity) version of “Reylo” for the films; the ‘ship itself has been written better by countless fangirls because they at least didn’t make it about Rey being attracted by torture, mass murder, personal violation, and maiming and murdering of her friends… and nothing else.
Rey after TLJ really isn’t a lead character - and in fact, isn’t much of a character at all. She’s a personality-lacking tool the film deploys to tell the audience to care about Kylo (frankly, Daisy Ridley deserves all the credit that Adam Driver got for supposedly playing a “complex” character - Driver’s acting is wasted on a script that lacks any complexity for his actual role) or to score some shallow “performative” points as a female character in a film that is still inherently about white dudes being entitled to more than everyone else.
TLJ is mostly saying “Women can be strong too!… though they will of course be utterly submissive to the nearest white dude, and don’t really have personalities.”
3. Too little, too late in The Rise of Skywalker. TROS is a film of compromise… and sadly, some of that compromise is impossible. Too much of TLJ’s priorities are kept in TROS to actually make sure Rey get’s an adequate story; what parts of TLJ TROS respects still deprive Rey of her best enemy (Kylo), her best internal conflict (resisting the urge to murder Kylo and thus fall to the dark side), her best on-screen partner (Finn, because LFL wants that to be Ben Solo), and her best significance to the the plot (as either a Skywalker or as their only true heir as heroes.)
Rey can’t be the main star of the story if the story is resurrecting Palpatine just so Ben Solo can help fight him, but Abrams is doing his best to avoid just making the film about Ben the way LFL wants - so you get this rushed, would-work-better-if-Rey-were-a-Skywalker reveal that Rey’s Palpatine’s daughter, some hogwash about possession and a little necromancy so that Ben can “save” her twice, and clearly reluctantly-added-in kiss with Ben - and the film still kills off Ben, and thus the Skywalker family, because we all know that LFL and the audience would have seen the next story, where Ben would take center stage if alive, as the “real” sequel…
TROS, in a lot of ways, just showcases how much TLJ was a horrible film for Rey and the very concept of Rey, since it’s just keeping all the things TLJ did to her, but not concealing it by slavish devotion to Kylo/Ben itself.