To be more specific, a lot of "normies" happily joined in bashing Miles with people that were racist, and there are many factors for that, but one of them was Marvel depriving fans of a good ongoing Peter Parker run from all universes.
Some fans like it, but it's a very divisive story. At best, it is still nowhere near as well received or impactful as Scott Snyder's Batman. The Court of Owls stuck around in comics and are still alluded to in multiple mediums since their debut. Likewise, Snyder's Riddler story went on to influence all versions of the Riddler, including Reeves' film. Superior has none of that going for it. Honestly, Superior doesn't get brought up or adapted period unless Slott is directly involved. Nick Lowe tried to hype up Superior at D23 this year and got nothing but awkward silence from the crowd.
The reason I brought up the New 52 is because in many ways it was DC's equivalent to BND. It was a relaunch that came around the same time that retconned old continuity for the purpose of bringing in new fans. In spite of it being more critically successful and impactful than anything in BND, most people (including DC themselves) still consider it a failure, which is why DC Rebirth happened (the DC equivalent of what undoing OMD would be).
Point is, if we can acknowledge the New 52 relaunch was ultimately unjustified in spite of gems like Scott Snyder's Batman and Morrison's Superman... I don't see what justification there was for the clearly-inferior BND relaunch.
When it comes to reception, personal taste is irrelevant. The discussion is about things that can be objectively measured. Spider-Verse is not one of my ten favorite Dan Slott Spider-Man stories, but it's on a high number of "Best of" lists, so I can't really argue about how it is received.
Kevinroc beat me to it, but your argument is essentially that "expert" opinions online matter more than what everyone else thinks.
Putting aside the elitist nature of this argument, big writers who write Comic Book articles and "Best of" lists are subject to the same demands for sensationalism as CNN journalists. Of course that they're going to hype up the most recent comics in the industry. You won't find a lot of IGN or CBR articles trashing any recent major runs, even if they're bad.