Originally Posted by
Lukmendes
In-universe there's no good reason for that yeah, out of universe, it's to prevent other characters to take over franchises lol.
Like as much as X-fans can bitch and whine about how other heroes do nothing to prevent mutants from being fucked over by racists and the government, they'd probably get annoyed if the Avengers or F4 showed up every other issues to help instead of allowing X-Men to solve that by themselves.
So yeah, everybody is a moron so other franchises don't take over each other much, this is a thing that happened even in the more """"realistic""" Ultimate, where despite Shield being everywhere, they didn't do much with the likes of Spidey.
Just because others are having problems doesn't mean that we should ignore that Spidey is among 'em, specially considering that we're getting worse quality after Spencer at least tried to write some characters properly.
It's not like a family prevents struggle, why do people talk about it like that? Spidey as a family man is only stagnant if he's written to be stagnant.
And hell, if this BND style of writing is any hint, if he doesn't have a family he's stagnant too.
I'm not saying he has to become a family man to stop being stagnant, specific status quo are nothing but tools, Spidey is not inherently better or worse if he's dating MJ or anyone else, it all depends on the writer, 'cause if we had less DeMatteis and more Zeb Wells back when the marriage was going on, people wouldn't look that fondly back to it.
Spidey being only about misery is revisionism, considering that while he never achieved that much, at times he was happy enough with his life even though he struggles, it's stuff line BND that exaggerates this "Spidey is a loser who can't achieve anything ever because otherwise he's not relatable™ anymore".
Even when Shield was around it still didn't really happen lol.
Nobody here is talking like only Spidey is being fucked over.
This is the Spidey parts of these forums, so we get to talk about Spidey, and Spidey fans aren't going to other parts of the forum and say how everyone else has it good besides Spidey, characters like Diana have their own dedicated forums for them to talk and complain about the characters, and at least a character like Black Panther, who doesn't have a dedicated forum, has a dedicated thread for it.