I don't want to rehash a Bendis conversation that could live in another thread, so I'll try to have it in terms of the collections of his I've read and my immediate reaction to keep it relevant.
Avengers Disassembled - "Decent for a hot mess of a live reboot that came out of nowhere for a fake superhero team that should have been cancelled in the 90s." I read this purely out of intrigue at what lead to House of M. As a dedicated X-Men fan I've always seen the Avengers as a sort of obligatory book Marvel published to draw JLA fans, so I figured this was as good as any of their stories could get
House of M - "That was okay," which is about as much as you'll get from me about any alt-U tale other than AoA.
Dark Avengers - "Holy $@#&!" This was my first serious Bendis exposure and I had never read a superhero book like it. All of the dialog and sniping didn't bother me much, because I figured that's how a bunch of catty villains would act if they were dressed up as superheroes and locked in Avengers Tower together. Also, Bendis clearly got Daken and Moonstone, both of whom I love.
At this point, I was thinking, "Screw all those haters - this guy is funny and he can make something out of nothing in just a few issues, even when he has crap to work with."
Spider-Woman - "Yeah, Bendis is awesome."
Secret Invasion & Seige - "The plot was good, and the guy can be forgiven if he can't write event books. Can anyone?"
With his X-Men run looming and due to this accursed thread I took the plunge and picked up the NA/MA OHCs around when the Omnibus was announced.
Secret War & New/Mighty Avengers - "Hmm. Bendis has some problems." As a non-fan of Avengers, I was straight-up delighted through the first two volumes. Then the Bendis of it all sank in. No one did anything for a reason. Everyone sounded the same. Whole arcs would go by and I couldn't quite tell you what the plot was. It was all pleasant enough, but it felt like I was trapped in a spin cycle. I felt like it improved slightly with the Heroic Age because the plot got bigger, but you could tell he cared less about the cast.
Avengers vs. X-Men - The less said the better.
By now I had grown wary of him - the awesomeness of Dark Avengers was seeming like a fluke attributed to playing with a set of characters who had never had to hold non-fight panel time for several issues in a row.
All-New/Uncanny X-Men - "This makes me hate comic books." have come full circle to understand how Avengers fans felt back in 2005. Everyone speaks in the wrong voice and it takes issues and issues for anything to happen. We are in the Dark Ages of X-Men.
Age of Ultron - "So, he only doesn't suck at events when they're not in continuity - got it!"
Daredevil - "Ugh, Bendis." I know you all like it and it won all of the awards, and it was a great plot idea, but too many pages were just painful to read. I slogged through it dutifully.
Elektra & Moon Knight - "Yep: Bendis." Now I understood his MO. This was a delight to read, but it wasn't a Moon Knight series. It was a "generic hero with some of Moon Knight's history and also his costume" series, which is the only thing Bendis knows how to write - as supported by my entire experience to date.
Congratulations - now you understand my feelings towards Bendis.
I've got all of it (including the Vulcan/Starjammers stuff) except for DnA GotG. Eagerly awaiting the TPBs so I can dig in to the entire saga.