Originally Posted by
Ouroboros-PhoeniX
As already posted in the Jean thread:
I thinked a lot about the discussion between Jean and Scott. It seemed to be out of nowhere, but I wanted to give credit to Duggan and the x-writers, and to see it on the wider picture of their lives and their relationship, and I came to see it as a very good character-building, if we try to think to it from this perspective.
When Jean died, Scott was going through an identity crisis, cause of all the Apocalypse stuff. And we know all the things Scott got through since then, and what he became. Then Scott died. When they both came back to life, they found each other.
Then came Krakoa, a bright new beginning, full of possibilities, and both were engaged in this new status quo, and in building mutants' future. They embraced it, with all its opportunities, included their estendend family and their polyamorous relationships with Logan (and Emma?). And when the necessity of an X-Men team came to them, they engaged in it together, with all of themselves. It kept them closer then ever, in all the ways we saw in X-Men and the last year Hellfire Gala special. It was their project, their scope, their "child". It seemed to them to be on the same frequencies.
But the truth is that they never faced the fact that when they came back to life in the first place they were not anymore the same as when Jean died, in particular Scott. He went through too many things, the extinction years, AvX, the revolution, etc. And, as well as it could happen in real life when in a relationships the members are growing apart, this truth arrived not little by little but all in a sudden, when the two have to face a liminal situation. The Brood thing may seem a secondary thing, but it was not. It was the ethical moment where Jean and Scott had to face how different they growth, what they became.
Scott had to become the one who thinks like the "enemy", who do all what is needed to do to let his people survive. Jean since her resurrection was the kind of person who was capable to face world hate, and the more hateful being in the world (Cassandra Nova), with the tools of understanding, compassion, empathy, who wanted to believe in them to make the world better. The Brood situation forced them in this truth they didn't (want to?) face before, and made it undeniable. And brought to the apparent disconnected things that merged from the conversation in number 24, where, as it was already said, both of them are saying similar things, both of them are both in the right and the wrong, or better both of them are in their perspectives, that have their flaws and their strenghts. As it happens in real life.
And these perspectives are not in the same frequencies anymore. They can't be in the same goal anymore, and Jean saw it, before and better than Scott (and its all in-character with both). That's why she's quitting the group and their project, their "child". She's not leaving the X-Men as a concept, or once and forever. As she will say to Lorna just in the scene after, "once an X-Men...". She's only needing time and space to understand what is important, what remains to her after all this awareness, and she decided to take the chance to do it, in a brave, strong and independent way.
And she's not leaving Scott too, she's just letting him the chance to choose if he has the same needing, the same will, and to follow her, or if his project, his "child", is more important. She's not judging him, she's leaving him his choice, his freedom, but she doesn't intend to wait for him, to be dependent from him, in the path she's perceiving as the better for her.
This is how I arrived to see this conversation, and in this perspective it is a very strong one.