My whole point is that they've decided to move forward and they don't have to forgive him to do that. He "served his time" by being held in the bunker willingly and Hope and he had a conversation where she's decided to move on. That's all canon now from over 10 years ago and why it has barely been brought up since. And again I'll agree to disagree regarding his choice to go to Tempo, but I do agree that the Five should be utilized more outside of resurrections.