They should have gone with JMS’s original pitch for OMD and put everyone back in college, hanging out at the Coffee Bean. In the long run, that would have done far less damage to the characters and that’s the status quo - the fictional Archie Andrews status that never really existed in the books - they truly want, anyway.
Precisely. The idea that the marriage is bad for longevity is a canard since the book didn’t die during the marriage. It’s merely someone’s opinion and that someone just happened to be in a position of power to make their opinion an edict.
It’s also oddly insulting to Stan Lee and Jim Shooter and can be read as assuming they were not concerned with the character’s longevity and appeal to new readers, and were actively out to destroy Spider-Man’s value as a serial character by okaying the marriage and putting it in place. When they were just as concerned yet thought the marriage would be additive and not subtractive, and since they had the power at the time, the marriage was written into the books.