Originally Posted by
Xenon
The Tragedy of the Brevoort Manifesto is that it's 80% beautiful but the 20% that's wrong is so wrong it ruins everything. He absolutely needs to go.
I will say though, not in defense of Tom but just in general, I actually understand the sort of conflicted feelings people have about Parallel Lives, or rather, the conflicted feelings about the reveal that she's always known. I actually understand the point that Brevoort is trying to make, that since she always knew he was Spider-Man, she didn't get the chance to fall in love with "just" Peter, but frankly, thinking on it now, that's just a flawed idea. The reality is that Mary Jane is the only person who ever actually knew who Peter Parker was. Spider-Man isn't just some thing that he does on Tuesdays after getting Tacos. It's a major facet of his life that completely alters how he goes through it. It affects his jobs, his love life, his friends and family, it's this whole part of him that changes everything about who he is. The reality is that Gwen never actually knew the real Peter Parker. She knew a part of him and she loved him for who he presented himself as. And it's not that what he presented himself as was a lie, but it was missing context adn details. I firmly believe, thanks to Captain Stacy, that Gwen would have loved Peter anyway, but it's nonetheless true that who she knew was ultimately a Persona. Felicia learns who Peter is, perhaps, but simply isn't interested in that life. She grows up a bit over time, but there' still a fundamental disconnect between what she wants out of life and the Normalcy that Peter seeks out. In her case, she loves Peter BECAUSE of Spider-Man. Brevoort seems to misunderstand MJ pretty severely in this quote, because he implies it's that way with MJ as well. But tha'ts shown pretty definitively to not be the case. It's true she never had the chance to fall in love with just Peter Parker the lovable loser but.....that's not who Peter Parker actually is. If anything, it makes her claim stronger since she was the only one who got to choose to be involved knowing everything.
And really, the worst part of the reveal that MJ knows Peter is Spider-Man is that they don't really nail it down. It's left vague and I think it's too important a detail to leave vague. Paralell Lives answer is as good as any, frankly. The other big time you could pin it to would be Gwen's death, as MJ has all the pieces you need of that puzzle to figure it out at that point, but I think the way they did it is stronger, even if it introduces a few questionable moments where MJ is treating him like a jerk when she knows why he's acting the way he's acting (but you can explain those away as her keeping up appearances or still being annoyed even if she knows the reason behind it).