For long running series with multiple creative teams, every generation has "their" version. People have their James Bond, their Doctor Who, their Star Trek, their Ninja Turtles, their Batman. All of these series change to reflect the times as well as the tastes of the people working on them. Sometimes they'll bring back ideas and some of the flavor of a previous iteration, but it's never the same as before.
The married Spider-Man era is over. And if they ever brought it back in some capacity, it wouldn't be the same.