And to be clear i know what Duggan was going for at least i think. The only time Jean has held Scott's powers back has been in love and affection so i get maybe this was done to prove a point on how serious she was but given where it happened and how it always was presented in the past it didn't work for me. I felt the shock Scott must have felt as Jean took what was an intimate moment, one i am sure Scott always felt safe in because that was how it has been presented and to use it in that way was unnecessary. To i guess prove a point. So logically i see what was gone for and i don't think jean was a bully but scott was violated here, and so was the relationship. And again, he right.
Also which is it? is jean phoenix or not? is she responsible for what phoenix did or not because while she calling out others for genocide she sure didn't say "if i could live with what i did as phoenix" when it came to Broo at the end.