I absolutely Despised DISCO simply because I hated its grim outlook. I'm very forgiving of Trek hell I legit enjoy all the films but the future has to be optimistic, and Starfleet and the Federation must stand for that future you can have rogue factions just keep the rest optimistic. Hence why I like SNW and Orville (Not Trek but close enough).
BUT there is a larger problem with Star Trek and Star Wars fandoms and that is even when you get rid of misanthropes and the misogynists those 2 "communities" are full of gatekeepers, nitpickers, and just flat out "C U Next Tuesdays" if you get my drift.