It's not just culture around BND, it's around Spider-Man at all. That's the biggest harm OMD and BND caused - it created one endless, very aggressive dispute about what exactly Spider-Man should look like, and of course it affects writing. Current run is just one big anti-thesis to everything the fanbase demanded for years, it's not coincidence.
I'm sure it's the true reason why Zdarsky doesn't want to have anything do with ASM, because he just wants to tell stories and doesn't want to be involved in this toxic mess.