Originally Posted by
Xenon
The youtuber gets to the heart of the matter at the end, that Paul is a representation of something the readers hate more than doing anything himself, but his treatment is just a result of how the story was told.
Paul shows up in issue 1, with MJ, with no explanation. Considering where we left Peter and MJ at the end of Beyond, it's a horrible whiplash, some kind of nightmare we weren't really expecting. AT that point Paul's fate was basically sealed. He was a meme, a representative of the hatreed we felt towards the status quo shift, easily represented by that stupid face. He was the guy who stole Spidey's wife, and everyone hates tthat. We hate it because of OMD. We hate it because they were just together, we hate it because we just don't see how it could happen (the only convincing MJ leaves Peter story was the one in the 70s). So F*** Paul he's awful, he's terrible, he's...really just a stand in for the situation that we hate. And on a certain level that hate is justified, because, like the kids, Paul only exists for one reason, to hurt the reader. That's it, that's his point. He's supposed to be this shocking surprise attack and ion this he succeeds, if nothing else. But that, of course, leads to the enmity that Paul's name engenders now amongst the Spider-Man community.
Of course, if examined like this the truth becomes clearer, now that we have all this information. And the truth is that...Paul is nothing, of course. Paul didn't really do anything. He's passive and mostly silent, probably to keep him from saying anything that would give the readers more ammo to hate him. Ok, yeah, he accidentaly killed every single person on the planet. And in truth he should bear some responsibility for that, even if it was inadvertent, but what we're actually mad about is that MJ's defense of him in that situation feels like a betrayal, again (whether it is or not). She's supposed to be on Peter's side, not trying to compare feeling bad about doing a bad thing with being Spider-Man and having to lie to people to hide that identity (considering Mary Jane is one of the primary beneficiaries of his identity being secret, this is not something she should do). The echos of Sins Past in her defense make the whole thing feel extra icky. And yet this interaction strikes at what the current status quo's problem really is, which is Mary Jane. A woman who has expressed commitment and love for Peter doznes of times over hundreds of issues, a woman who pursued Peter even when he was in love with Gwen and yes came back and hung around him for another shot when he dated Black Cat. Now she just doesn't see him for a while, is stuck with Paul for a while, and all of sudden it's all gone. Now we get an MJ who never loved Peter and was fine with whoever. Her spirit drained her desires ignored, her words ash. Instead of providing answers as to why Paul existed we were instead just reaffirmed of the contrived nature of the plot. MJ is with Paul because the plot demanded it and her personality and agency will be subservient to the demands of the plot. It's the worst elements of Slott's run combined with the sorest subject in Spider-Man fandom.
The problem FOR Paul is that the problem WITH Paul is that he exists at all. He's a weapon to be used against the fandom, something made to feel bad about, and he continues to be a Damocles sword hanging about one of the most beloved characters in the franchise. It's not anything he did it's everything he was created to be.