This, CBR article (which reminds me of better articles from before Jonah sold CBR):
https://www.cbr.com/spider-man-peter...k-unrelatable/
Brings up some good points that have been mentioned in various threads, namely that Peter's bad luck doesn't make him relatable.
I would even take it further, in that, his bad luck - now taken to such an extreme that it seems more purgatorial than realistic - actually makes people to not even WANT to relate.
Who the hell wants to relate to someone who's life seems to be an exercise in sadism? It's easier to want to relate to Ben Grimm who at least has a family with the woman he's loved most of his life. Or even Moon Knight (sure he might have god-given DID but he's got friends, is growing to accept love, and allegedly now has a kid).
Daffy Duck and Charlie Brown have nothing on loser Peter.