Originally Posted by
Garlador
That's comics. And movies. And video games. And basically every creative medium. And politics. And... ugh, basically everything. It's not unique to Spider-Boy or Spider-Man whatsoever.
I see that joked about every single day, because people view ideology like a battleground (this goes both ways with creators and consumers...), where people draw lines in the sand, insist their views are the only correct ones, and disregard all opposite sides in a binary black-and-white battle of wills. For my efforts, I TRY to remain subjective and see the big picture, then taking an informed stance.
But you're not arguing with one person. You're arguing with thousands of people with different views and stances and preferences. My wife shared the other day the double-standard for The Marvels movie, where women hero movies are expected to be "perfect" and need those high Rotten Tomato scores and big box office numbers, otherwise some Hollywood executive will - AGAIN - claim that women can't carry action movies and "woke" agendas are ruining films. When their movies succeed, folks give credit to every other factor. When they lose, it's because of the preconceived reasons in their heads. There is no "winning".
So the only response and life advice I've learned is that "winning" isn't important. Who cares if you win or lose? No, seriously? Say you convinced every hater tomorrow that Spider-Boy is the best thing ever... great. If nobody comes around at all... fine. The world keeps turning. The book may not ever be for them. "Citizen Kane" has a 99% on Rotten Tomatoes - so SOMEONE didn't like this seminal masterpiece of groundbreaking cinema, and they might hate it to their dying breath.
No creator should care too much about the "winners and losers" game. Just put out what your heart and talent drives you to create. "If you build it, they will come". Even the wildest and strangest books have a following. I had a brief heart-to-heart with J.M. DeMatteis about an oft-forgotten one-shot comic he wrote in the 90s that left a strong, positive impression on me, and it blew his mind that anyone remembered it, let alone walked away with a greater sense of appreciation for life afterwards, and he said it reminded him that no book is unimportant.
For what it's worth, Spider-Boy clearly has silenced many critics. I view myself as a healthy skeptic - and I'm not very happy with what's happening to many other characters in the pages of ASM - but that's independent of what Spider-Boy is doing, which I think it's doing well. I see vastly more positive messages regarding this book than certain other titles. I have no skin in this game; that's just my observation.
By all means, take feedback into consideration, but ultimately readers just want a good, fun, entertaining book, just as much as creators do. Filter out the noise, appreciate the positives, and ever march forward towards greatness. It's all any of us can do.