Probably the best version of Ben we've seen outside the 90s comics is in TAS. Despite "our" Peter commenting, "This is starting to sound like a bad comic book plot!" when it came to Ben's backstory there, I thought it was pretty well-done as a tragedy, given the reality where Ben became a heroic Scarlet Spider and did his best to make peace with his existence as a clone was the same reality where Peter completely fell apart and tried to kill Ben outright before being possessed by a dimension-traveling Carnage symbiote drawn to and amplifying his hate and rage to apocalyptic extremes.