That's definitely fair too! I think for me, even more than the PeterMJ marriage, one of the big detriments of the post-OMD era for me is Marvel's insistence on 616 Peter being in his 20's and often pushing to write him to act young. Spencer handled it well from what I recall, not unlike how the Insomniac games write Peter or the 80's era Peter.
But for me, 616 Peter is a guy who is perpetually somewhere in his 30's. Always has been, even when I was 9 years old. Growing up, I had the old Tom DeFalco Ultimate Guide to Spider-Man and would regularly go onto dedicated Spider-Man fan sites to look through archives and summaries of all the different classic storylines and comic issue covers that happened in the 70's, 80's and 90's. I didn't worry as much about the 60's, since my folks used to get me the old silverback Marvel Masterwork volumes regularly enough. So I'd be reading the original Lee/Ditko and Lee/Romita era comics as well as the then contemporary JMS comics and the DeFalco guide... and it all painted this very defined image in my head that Peter was someone who'd been Spider-Man for at least 15 years, going on 20, by the time I was reading current issues. I'd read the classic comics and see Peter where he was at in the various stages of his life at that point, but "in the present day" for me, he was always 30-something.
And while OMD tried to retcon all of that happening into a shorter window of time, as well as removing Peter and MJ's marriage, I've just never gone along with that in my head. To me, Peter Parker is still some dude somewhere in his 30's and has mellowed out a bit more than what we generally see in contemporary 616 Spidey books. They're not bad, in fact some are pretty fantastic- but there's always something just a bit off to me.
The other thing that I think Hickman's off to a great start with that helps recapture a lot of the more classic vibes IMO is that, even though the status quo here is quite a bit different and these versions of the supporting cast are all a little different in personality in varying ways, the supporting cast are all immediately present and engaging to follow. I'm just as excited to see where things go with Redacted and Jonah as I am to see Peter's journey into becoming Spider-Man as I am to see how these changes impact MJ and the kids as I am to see how Robbie handles having to run the Bugle while under Fisk's thumb.