I think it's only an insult to black women in particular when black female characters are either marginalized or written out as love interests. Or denied love interests of their own. On the other hand, black females that immediately comes to mind are Storm, Misty Knight and Spectrum who at least get to have an occasional love interest or date. I'm not sure what Amanda Waller's status is in the nu52 now. Thunder was dating Grace in the old 52, but I guess that goes back to the thing of minorities not dating the same minority thing.