Questioning moral behavior is not respectability politics. Repeatability politics is more cultural than moral. Like critiquing people's fashion sense, or how they choose to name their children. Nobody should be called immoral because of what they wear and how they choose to name their children IMO.
I don't believe that's it.
To quote KRS-ONE, "where I'm from if you're soft you're lost".
Things like being a thug, gangsta, or hustla are seen as pluses in the "hood". Those things are equated with masculinity and blackness. Where as being smart/nerd or thinking about higher education can be seen as being soft and trying to be white.
I was listening to the radio yesterday and they were talking about the 10 most dangerous cities in America. You actually had folks calling in mad that their city wasn't higher on the list or even on the list and they were sounding like they were proud that their city is so bad.
“Let the King get back on his throne." - Jay Briscoe
I don't think Lisa Bonet fits the profile of the women that we know about. Also, she wanted to shake the image of being a Cosby Kid and went to do that awful film. She bit the hand that fed her so she had to go. It couldn't have been that much bad blood as she came back to the show.
“Let the King get back on his throne." - Jay Briscoe
It'd surprise me more if they weren't.
And if some of the guys posting on this thread spent less time trying to prove their street cred to each other and more time reading up on why victims of sexual assault are reluctant to come forward, they might learn a goddamn thing or two.
Well they do know that not every allegation declared is true. i think I should throw a goddamn in there. Goddamn. there.
Bill Cosby has denied allegations that he raped supermodel Janice Dickinson in the Eighties
The only story she [Dickinson] gave 12 years ago in her autobiography, as well as her interviews with the media, was that she refused to sleep with Mr Cosby and he blew her off."
He added: "You can confirm with Harper Collins that she never claimed that Mr Cosby raped her, that no attorney representing Bill Cosby tried to kill the story (since there was no such story) and no one tried to prevent anything she wanted to say about Bill Cosby in her book."
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No Lisa Bonet was fired from "A Different World" because she and Lenny Kravitz became pregnant with Zoe. This was after "Angel Heart" (which was a pretty creepy and underrated movie with Robert De Niro playing Lucifer). They couldn't fit her pregnancy into her story line as a college student. But as soon as she had the baby, she came back to "the Cosby Show" from finding herself in Africa, with a brand new husband and a cute stepdaughter named Olivia. She was hired to be the uber cool, rebellious daughter, "Angel Heart" only gave her more cred, but being knocked up and unmarried was a bridge too far for Cosby.
See, when I think of respectability politics, I think historically of people getting lynched, and certain black community leaders saying: "Good. He deserved it for being an animal." You know, they point fingers at the alleged dirty majority pulling down the rest of us trying to blend in. It's heinous stuff. It's not even the same when I think of somebody telling kids to pull up their stupid pants because they look stupid.
"A happy ending? So unlikely. We're not having a moment here.
Wrong city, wrong people, all huddling in fear.
No one escapes the slaughterhouse, and that's just where you're at.
(You could've asked Rebecca but then Adam stomped her flat.)
You think you're special cuz you're scrappy? You're deluded, time to go.
Lucy's living on the moon but you're another dead psycho."
You guys understand that even if Janice Dickinson is a band-wagon jumping liar, that doesn't mean the other women are lying, right? She wouldn't have a bandwagon to jump on if there wasn't a long standing pattern of such accusations.
Also, there's a time and place to what women should sensibly do to protect themselves from rapists. That time or place is not when responding to specific reports of rape. That reeks of victim-blaming and slut shaming.