Originally Posted by
Tendrin
Peter's desire for closeness and understanding with his biological parents is understandable. A lot of adopted children go through the same thing. They simply missed the boat on characterizing it, and by making Richard Parker so central to what makes Spider-Man, well, /Spider-Man/, they changed the nature of the character as well as devolved the important of Aunt May and Uncle Ben... which completely undermines what makes it so compelling.
Turning Spider-Man into Peter Parker's birthright was a disastrous error that shows a complete misunderstanding of, to me, one of the most compelling points of Spidey's background, removes all chance and fortune from it, and is merely an attempt to cash in on an overarching metastory for a trilogy format. In the comics, you have twisted father figures like Norman Osborne to contrast with the seemingly wise Uncle Ben, or Doc Ock's overprotective mother, or Electro's absentee, abusive father, or Eddie Brock's cold, distant dad, and so on. It isn't about genetic heritage, or DNA. It's about how these people were shaped by their environment, by their /lives/, and even if it wasn't intentional, it's hard to miss how it's evolved over the years, in my view.
Peter's biological parents shouldn't be involved in anything that makes him Spider-Man, beyond how their end passed him into Uncle Ben and Aunt May's hands, and frankly, they should never be touched on more than that. Ever. His parents are his aunt and uncle, and they raised him and shaped him into the man he should be. While the character can, as some people do, fail to grasp that due to a desire for connection with his biological parents, the narrative in the ASM movies failed on every count in that regard and in doing so removed an important mythological plank from Spider-Man's story.
I maintain that one of the primary narrative themes that run through the cast of Spider-Man is nature versus nurture, and what the difference in values and upbringings and circumstances lead people to make their decisions. Almost every major character in Spidey's rogues gallery touches on this and all show us how /fortunate/ we are that the Spider landed on Peter and not someone else, someone who didn't have such figures as Uncle Ben and Aunt May in their life. It reaffirms the tragedy of Peter's earlier mistakes as well.
The stories are about who you were yesterday, and who you'll be tomorrow -- which also goes back to why Spider-Man, at his finest, is also one of our most forgiving Super Heroes and why he always seems willing to try to give his even most ardent opponents (Hi, Ock!) a chance to change, even to his dying breath.