Back on the old forums I briefly posted that I was uncertain about trying Girls as I thought it would all be taking out anger and insecurity about women. After almost a year I finally read it, and it wanted to go in a sweet, "everyone has their reasons, let's move past our differences" direction, but it was still highly problematic.
For starters it kind of hand waves all the ways all possibility of rape. The first girl is introduced in a way that we thinks she's been raped. (She's naked, a father and son pair are running after her and the son has his pants down. We later learn that the son was accused of attempted rape and that he has Down's Syndrome. I pretty much dreaded everything involving this plot.) After Lester has sex with four of the girls he seems traumatized, but no one, including the storytellers seem to consider that he was raped and it gets explained as a reaction to how long he's been celibate. The Girls themselves are un-rape-able, even when we come across Cole strangling one as he has sex with her.
Everything misogynistic thing Ethan says in the first issue is true. Wes is able to come to an understanding how the women are right to fear the men as they do, but the ball busting Nancy still is seen chopping of Lester's balls with an ax and forcing the men to do slave labor. (While Kenny attempts to kill her and the other women by proxy twice, there isn't nearly as much time devoted to his bad behavior and she's the one who dies).
The Girls themselves are of course a misogynistic fantasy. Naked, near mute and always sexually available, they feed the townswomen to the giant sperm monster demonstrating hoe clearly they belong to the patriarchy. It was pretty funny when the men were all aghast that the girls were only interested in them for reproduction. I don't get how any of them were surprised.
I didn't hate it. (I think that would require me going it wanting to love it.) But I'd have a hard time recommending it and I don't know if I want to go back. I'm also still uncertain if I want to read Alex + Ada which was another reason I read it.