yeah, likewise i was pointing out the creative’s dilemma without supplying a solution and just to get others to at least consider the minefield they need to navigate.
there are somewhat established and objective rules for writing (particularly in western fiction) that can provide guidelines. problems have occurred in serialised fiction when you try to change the status quo too much (especially in long running tv shows, though the simpsons navigated this arguably well) and problems pop up when you don’t (what we’re talking about here).