I understand Peter Parker is not Spider-Man 24/7 ( unlike Steve Rogers/ Cap), but the reason why Spider-Man is not respected in the MCU ( except the FF where he is considered extended family), is he is considered a man child and not an adult. That goes straight to OMD and how Marvel wants him, as opposed to being an adult and having to have responsibilities like caring for a wife and child. If anyone watches the Show 'NCIS' you will see the same thing with a character named Tony DiNosio ( Michael Weatherly), despite being excellent at solving crimes, he is basically a "Frat Boy" who the writers use him as comedy relief. ( although this may be changing with Tony). You would think that with Miles Morales around they could make him mature, but it is easier to continue along the same path, then actually realize that character GROWTH is a good thing. Basically, if Pete acts more adult then he will be treated more adult. If however, we see more stuff like we did with Cindy, then we will not. It's that simple.