I didn't necessarily mind the group as a secret society being revealed to another secret society. You can always rationalize it as the Illuminati not being convinced the Pride was worth worrying about, and that Tony would handle it when they left. I just thought it was weird how open the Pride was about their organization to anyone who saw them in character, Tina really tried to sell that woman on being sacrificed. Which wouldn't have been too bad if the Hayes ended up doing some mind wiping as I had expected, but at least with Tony he got out with his memories intact and just willingly let the Pride do as they pleased once they stopped bothering his friends.
Iron Man is responsible for the death of Destiny Gonzalez.