I don't know about new 52 Superman but pre 52 Superman used to regularly go up against parasite and not get drained immediately , even when parasite had things like his super speed
im not saying superman wouldn't lose to surfer, he would. but not with one shot
And surfer is very powerful but he isn't one shotting new 52 superman with a planet busting attack I believe because superman can bench the planet now
He'l one shotted him with a punch then superboy had to come distract h'el before superman woke up and rejoined the fight
thats more powerful than surfer i would say
I agree that the odin feat shows durability but arguably someone who can one shot superman can also one shot surfer, and we know that is enough to make thanos feel the hits
now imagine that superspeed and i think we have a sweet fight