Originally Posted by
boots
you absolutely can, but ultimately its contrivance to keep him swinging. it doesn't feel true. the argument can be made that he puts his family in danger through being spider-man.
not only do i believe that peter would not want to risk his child ending up fatherless (which is exactly what happened to peter himself), but putting danger aside, being spider-man is time consuming and a child would be in danger of neglect (which is the lesson to be learned from harry osborn). i feel like peter is the guy to learn from mistakes and sins of the father, rather than being doomed to repeat them.
god. the idea of leaving mj (or any mother) at even the smallest risk of raising a child solo sounds horrific to me. if i was her, i would have some deep, deep problems with him even considering it. a lot of responsible men cut back on risks when a helpless human being comes into this world that depends on them and that's just stuff like not driving and texting at the same time.
strikes me as juvenile cake-and-eat-it. people seem to want "real world growing up" and that means sacrifices rather than i can do it all! look aunt may! seven kids, a wife and i'm holding down two jobs as well as writing a blog and my instagram. that's why i am...amazing!
that being said, it's a level of bullshit that i can handle because it's superhero comic books (even if i'd rather not). if we brought real world pressures into any of their lives, most of them would have collapsed or retired by now with or without kids.