Maybe not in this reality, but he was abusive towards her in the Ultimate universe, and smacked her around and bit her head off in the Zombie universe. So Pym's abusive nature must be an ingrained part of his personality if it keeps popping up in alternate realities.
Scott will never be the "true" Ant-Man until he follows in Hank's footsteps. Then again, did they ever explain why he and Peggy divorced? Maybe he had the makings of an Ant-Man all along!