Like in this article:
http://goodcomics.comicbookresources...iceman-is-gay/
And here:
http://community.comicbookresources....iation/page232
Which reads to me like Emma Frost knew the truth about Bobby Drake before Bobby even knew. She knew she couldn't get involved with him because he wasn't being honest with himself, but they were still good friends and could joke about what could have been. It reminds me a lot of a conversation in which a straight girl has feelings for a gay boy, but knows it can't go anywhere, which doesn't end with a kiss or anything..