I'm not sure where to start, but to try to be brief, 3 or so parts
1. Joewithoutfear's post; 2. Iceman 3. Diversity (Fighting against the long game)
Joe, i really applaud you and thank you. This forum really makes you feel alone if you're not in line with the hug-a-thon for LGBT, and or Feminist veiw. So even though you were pretty conservative in your points, you embolden others to discuss it when people really SEEM to want to shout you down. (oh the irony is not lost on me, No)
So again Thanks. I do feel the way they're going about is anger generating in fact there's a twitter post where one of the marvel guy says its intended to make people mad/ stir up controversy.
Iceman (and hypocrisy): People keep saying "I don't know any Iceman fans" well I'm on and it pissed me off.
I've always thought Bobby drake was awesome. I used to watch him on spider-man and his amazing friends. I later saw he was a founding X-man and saw in his attitude and a kinship. I read X-factor when I was a kid (thought I had no idea they were the original team at that time) cause apocalypse was scary and Iceman and Archangel were really mind blowing) I read xmen forever and bought both limited series (one in the 2000s) I really thought Robert Tanaka Was his kid by opal (spoiler: it wasn't).
In my opinion I view Iceman not spiderman as the ubiquitous everyman character, and I loved him for being brave and strong yet emotionally inept guy Not to mention blunt and honest. All of this, his character because of all the things that happened to him honestly, because his parent abandoned him to be a child solider. I really understood him having problems with women because there are a LOT of guys like that who do. Frankly, Bobby Drake is the poster child for PTSD, but even if not all those relationships he was in that I've read over the years? All the ignorance that people level at Booby, about their perceived notion of him? They never really gave a damn about the character. I started reading planetary because I felt like Elijah Snow would be the type of guy Bobby might grow into given time to mature. So instead of all the failed relationships, being about a man whose trying to understand people better, the generic guy who really doesnt' get why his girlfriend just up and left, the guy who doesn't get a Mary jane yet whos been through so much. Isn't about him figuring out how he's been failing at leadership or realizing that other people feelings matter, or hell that he has asperger's... It because he a closeted homosexual... "THATS IT! Yeaahhh!". Its a slap in the face.
There are a lot of people cheering but It seems to me they're just cheering because they feel they're getting some sort of comeuppance. Some "I'm putting you straight white males int your place" / "get with it grandpa"/ "How dare you say diversity ANY diversity is wrong!". Diversity for the sake of diversity is wrong, and hateful.
Here's the hypocrisy. . . this Bobby drake thing is NEARLY the equivalent of taking Northstar having him "find religion" and renounce his Homesexual life style as sin, praising that he was delivered from the madness that made him live his life of filth. Full Stop. for one sec.
Forget that I'm a guy saying things you don't like on the internet for a sec. Just for a sec. Digest the Northstar idea. They make Northstar straight.
...Northstar... straight.
Heteronormative, and with a dangerous message too for that matter... and then finally adding insult to injury. Large groups of people are applauding the move and telling YOU, how dare you be mad.
They take carol danvers... put her in a Personal non super relationship with a guy who's totally dominant, and a bit of an jerk to her some jock military type, who basically fits the stereotype of the mental abuser. He doesn't hit her, just makes her feel bad, so she's thinking about how he's gonna be mad if she doesn't call soon. So she really needs to beat the SuperSkrull quickly and get to her cell.
...and people say to you "its just an arc give the writers a chance to tell his story/"WHAT? This happens to girls everyday! You think there aren't powerful women who put up with and HIDE abuse?"/"It's character development, man." ...and they tell you its not okay to be mad.
Would that be okay?
No! Its stupid and it basically TAKES away from what the character's core personality. Yet, that's what people are telling me about Bobby drake. Don't be mad and basically "hahaha shut up". Again. No.
I got the development of this guy from the beginning and now he's lessened far lessened because they're saying all the things that he didn't get right weren't because he was didn't get it but because of refusal to accept his hidden gayness. W... T... H... Oh and they way she "Out's him?" confrontational and prying... I wish he'd have hurt jean gray. Just lashed out right there. Sigh. Oh well eiser award inbound bendis. *eyeroll.
I'm going to have to do another post after this. It got a bit longer that I wanted and I don't know how the spoiler tags work on this forum. sorry.