My head hurts...They're not in sync at all. I already mentioned Laura's timeline. Blue is still set before Venomized, and therefore also before Avengers No Surrender (Vision was in Venomized, and ended NS needing major repairs). Gold is after No Surrender, the sequence is NS, then Rogue and Gambit, and then the Gold arc where Iceman and Rogue formed a new team. Red appears to be after Kitty's wedding, since Jean was at the bachelorette party and will be at the wedding itself. Astonishing seems to be set at some point before Old Man Logan quit the Gold team. Weapon X and Old Man Logan are in line with Gold.
And it's not just the X books. Spider-Man/Deadpool is set before Go Down Swinging, the current ASM arc, because Peter hasn't broken up with Mockingbird yet. It's also prior to the final arc of Despicable Deadpool. Marvel Two-In-One is definitely set before Invincible Iron Man #600 (because of Doctor Doom, who is still unscarred and Iron Man), and won't be over before Fantastic Four launches, which is obviously set afterwards. Champions #21 isn't out yet, but takes place before Incredible Hulk #717, because Amadeus's powers have changed. Also, #21 is out after the Infinity Countdown tie-in, which is actually set afterwards.