Ahhhh, I get what you're saying. I initially thought that perhaps your view was that DC was trying to cater to an audience that still wants the Reeve/Donner Superman. Now that you specifically mention the creators, yeah I agree they need to let it go. I like STM for what it is and I like the comics for what they are. I don't need to mix the two together.
Oddly enough, I was checking out the facebook posting for the "Truth" story arc starting this week, on DC's Superman page, and came across a person who was complaining about Superman's portrayal. He was actually complaining that Superman in Truth wasn't like the Christopher Reeve Superman from STM (which is the odd part, not the complaining. This is the internet after all). So DC was ruining the character. Considering that we're having this discussion, I just thought it odd that a comment like that would spring up now.