Bling! is my favorite, sorry.
I don't like the idea of adult Bobby Drake being gay because having read him for so long, I never saw the signs and those people pointed out to me seemed more flimsy then any thing.
I would accept it IF they started using Iceman properly as a heavy weight and gave him storylines BEYOND just now being gay or another tell of him being a underachiever wannabe Johnny Storm for the X-Men group.
He is full gay
By the power of retcon Iceman is now gay. Behold the almighty power of the retcon and tremble.
Well with one retcon we lost Torro to the Ihumans. With another the Magnus family was decimated. And with a third, Iceman's sexuality was turned on its head. Maybe we should be a little careful of Marvel, they seem to have an itchy trigger finger with retcons lately.
Gay Iceman was more than a meme, it's been an underlying theme for decades from one writer to the next. My beef with Bendis is that he did not work the reveal from that so it seems forced to the less X-Savvy readership.
Well on marvel database it says... "An alternate Earth-616 set in the past from where the X-Men were taken to the present Earth-616 by Beast.[1] Beast intended the younger X-Men to return, but Jean convinced them to remain until they can ensure Xavier's dream on peaceful coexistence become a reality." Key word "alternate"