Originally Posted by
t hedge coke
How many people does someone have to be attracted to on each side, to be bisexual, then? And how far does attraction need to go? Not even in terms of physical actions, but simply level of attraction. And, is there a time limit on how close the attractions need to be to one another, or how consistent over a lifetime?
I just think that even if it's "a man," or "a woman," that's still a man or woman.
"I'm not gay, I'm just gay for him," just seems to me a way of saying, "I'm not gay," while still having homosexual interest in someone and possibly homosexual sex with them.
What, I don't get, at all, are people who claim bisexual, but then clarify they've never acted on it or really ever had any feelings for that someone of that sex. They just think, well, everyone's a little bi, so they must be. If you've never felt something...
But, that's way out of the realm of this thread.