The first "Death" was staged to get Spiderman off her back, and I'm not sure if the second death when she jumped into the river was supposed to be another stage or if Stern had intentions of killing her off. Black Cat has always been known to disappear without anyone knowing where she went and come back.
1.Norman Osborne.
2.The living costume.
3. Fusion 2(although it was never properly confirmed that he ever died)
Stayed dead - Aunt May & Harry
Revived awesomely - Otto (when he's fully back) & Kraven
Should be revived - Kaine (inevitable)
Should have stayed dead - Aunt May, hands down. Others that should have stayed dead are Norman & Harry Osborn.
Were revived awesomely - Kaine aka Scarlet Spider II, for obvious reasons.
What character should be revived - Ben Reilly aka Scarlet Spider I, so much squandered potential.
"So you've come to the end now alive but dead inside."
Revive Gwen Stacy. What can I say...I have a thing for blondes in go-go boots.
Stay Calm. Carry Guns.
I'd like to bring back ezekiel, as an ally of peter's, but I don't have a good reason for doing so.
Bring back Ben Reilly. Give him a solo book or put him on the Web warriors or something.