Monica Rambeau is the queen of my heart and life. Bow down to her then give her all your money.
Nostagia leads to stagnation and over glorifying the past. The past sucked, the present sucks, and the future will suck. Take off the rose colored glasses and don't let that jerk nostalgia trick you into thinking life was better than it really was. If 20 years from now I'm of those people that say music, tv, videogames etc. was better back in my day please hit me in the knee caps with a bat.
The girl in glasses makes a joke about how she got to see Clark naked without his consent, even though he clearly isn't happy with the idea.
Reverse the situation - if it were Wonder Wonan who had been under the sheet and Jimmy was the one talking about how impressive she looked naked, people would be jumping up and down saying his statement was sexist because it showed a lack of respect for her as a woman.
Misandry set doesn't have to just mean killing men. Plenty of misogynist attitudes are non violent, like the belief that women are less capable of doing a particular job. It's any attitude which is based on personal opinions regarding gender rather than evidence.
The misandry here comes from a double standard - it's wrong for men to joke about seeing a woman nude without her consent if she is not okay with that, but women can openly joke about how they saw a man naked while was unconncious regarding of his feelings on the matter.
If ten years of recording The Young and the Restless for my mother have taught me anything, it's that characters in serial dramas are always happily in love...until they're not
“The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of altering their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit their views...which can be very uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.” - the 4th Doctor
If you read post you will see that I mentioned sexism isn't just about violence. No, this isn't as bad as shooting people, but try defending a sexist comment from a man by saying it's not as bad as killing somebody. Just because it's true doesn't mean the comment gets a pass.
And Clark clearly is NOT okay with it. And again, if you tell a woman she should take a comment about her great rack as a compliment, I dont think you are likely to get an affirming response.
Edit - sorry - that was supposed to say sexism isn't just about violence - again my ipad betrays me...
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If ten years of recording The Young and the Restless for my mother have taught me anything, it's that characters in serial dramas are always happily in love...until they're not
“The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of altering their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit their views...which can be very uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.” - the 4th Doctor
Clark seems a little freaked out by the fact that they saw him naked, but we don't actually see him react to the comment itself. Reading that panel from left to right, he speaks first, Condesa makes her comment--and that's it. In the next panel, he's talking to Jimmy about something else. Her comment was rude, but it's not nearly as bad as if he reacted directly to it and she persisted.
Yes, I would find such a comment more inappropriate if it were made by a man to woman. I'd also find it more inappropriate if Condessa made such a comment to a celibate, conservative, elderly priest, or to her father, or to a man known to have been sexually abused. Or, for a woman to observe that a woman who had successfully lost weight was "tiny" would come across very different than if if Condessa had made the same comment to the naked Clark. Different behavior is often judged differently when directed at different people, and when that's because the same behavior would cause more or less harm or offense in those cases, it's not necessarily "discrimination" in the bad sense of the word. We all have to "discriminate" between more and less appropriate situations for doing something.
And I think that, because women have been at the receiving end of so much objectification, it's reasonable to presume that most women are more likely to be seriously upset by a comment than most men. As a result, it's become, it think it's safe to say, socially conventional to expect men to take extra care not to make such comments to women. That seems to me to be a reasonable social convention, for now; but I would say making such comments to men will likely be perceived as more and more offensive as time goes by and (hopefully) progress toward gender quality is made.
More to the point (since,a fter all, this is something that happened in a comic), I think that in a comic or in other media, showing a guy make this kind of comment and not being rebuked would be more problematic, because it would reinforce the still-too-widespread tenancy to treat sexual exploitation or harassment of women as if it were normal. Seeing a woman make a comment like this to a man still seems like a receral of the norm to me, so it doesn't (in my opinion) reinforce the norm.
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It's an interesting idea, but, I'm not seeing a whole lot of real evidence of this "incentive" hypothesis. Phil put men on the island. Simone put men on the island. And Azzarello put men on the island. None of them stayed. Seems obvious to me that DC is not committed to having "forward" stick for the Amazons.
Even Azzarello did little to make the "reform" actually substantive beyond Diana's order. Only Alexa shows any change before she dies. By having a small group of Amazons attack the men, Finch did what Azzarello only talked about - she gave more diversity of action to the Amazons. The Amazons behaving badly will never be used up, because it's too easy - Azzarello made it easier by making it the foundation of their portrayal.
And your "belated" is hilarious given how much of Azzarello's run was "belated." Was Hera's background and change in years 2-3 "belated" interest? Was Athena's appearance in Secret Origins only a "belated" interest? Also, you seem to give Azzarello credit for leaving room for subsequent writers to add "welcome additions," but never seem to give him blame when the additions aren't so welcome.
Ah, the "could have been" game? I'm in favor of a more complex and nuanced conflict. But, then, as you know, I'm in favor of Azzarello giving us more complexity and nuance to the Amazons as well.
Did you not read Watchmen? Unity may come with a common enemy, but once that enemy is gone, too often, so is the unity.
I'm a very outspoken proponent of showing more connection between "mother and son, sister and brother;" aren't you the one that told me the mother-son scebe in issue 7 didn't need to be followed up on in the reunion with the men? Finch failed at that, but she was only following Azzarello's failure to show that. Lots of "could have been's" all around.
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Admittedly, it's early yet. For "a whole lot of real evidence" for or against what I said, we'll have to see what happens in the next few runs. I'm sure we'll still be arguing about this stuff in ten years, so we'll see what has happened then.
"Too often," sure. But you made the argument that the Amazons basically could not have coexisted with their brothers. I'm just saying that they could have done so if a writer had chosen to let the camaraderie take hold and not quickly lapse.Did you not read Watchmen? Unity may come with a common enemy, but once that enemy is gone, too often, so is the unity.
It's not that "patriarchy pove(s) a lot more entrenched and resistant to reform," it's that the hero and "modern feminist" (Diana) and the goddess of wisdom (Athena) show so little concern and make so little effort to actually change it. Restoring the patriach = save the day is really a bad theme for WW.
Diana should have beaten the First Born, and Athena should have had a plan to take the throne (ala Rucka). That would have been soooooo much better.
Well said.
What camaraderie? Outside of a few words from Alexa (and Diana), no one (male or female) really seems to care about the other side? Had Azzarello actually built something there - an emotional mother-son reunion, perhaps - you might have a case that goes beyond your own speculation. As is, Azzarello's "reform" is like a golf swing - without proper follow-through, it's going to fall short.
Hopefully the moive(s) will do a much better job, and the comics will follow, so we can have more camaraderie over the next few years.
You're right that bullying, depression/mental health, suicide, etc. are very real issues for men as well as women. Suicide, in particular, is a pressing problem. One reason I don't like the hyper-simplistic depictions of the war of the sexes is that too often it leaves out too many important issues like this.
One thing I do like about Azzarello's run is that is shows that patriarchy is often very hard on males, too. The addition of the First Born, and his death/exile, adds so much to the story.
You're right that misandry (like misogyny) is more than just violence. I don't like that scene with Superman. At best, it's very juvenile.
Well said. To add to that, the context matters. Here, it's a story about a man written by a man mainly for men. In it's awkward juvenile way, it's bragging up Clark's "impressive" manliness. That's not the same objectifying dynamic of a story about a women written by a man for men.
Additionally, as a global society, we still struggle to not define women mainly by their sexual appeal to men. We do sexualize men, as well (and this does lead to body image issue for boys/men); but, again, it's not quite the same dynamic, in part, because it isn't quite emphasized as much/often.
So, while Thor has his no-shirt scenes in the movies, he's the powerful lead hero that saves the day and happens to be sexy, too. But, he isn't defined by his relationship to women; the women are supporting characters more defined by their relationship to him in his story. He's still primarily a male fantasy.
Eta- I tried to think of a recent example in WW to bring it back to topic - I think it's praise worthy that Azzarello and Chiang made a concerted effort to not have these moments. Also, to D. Finch's credit, based on the issues I read, I think he's really upped his game; some of the best art I've seen for him. Phil, of course, did a great job, too.
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You cannot have equality and special treatment in this regard. Either things are equal or they are not. Claiming special privilege simply reinforces the arguments made by misogynists. It is only a good reversal of the norm if she is rebuked for it, as a man would be. What his panel shows is that what this person is doing is okay...which makes it ambiguous why its such a problem for Orion to constantly call Diana "legs". Shouldn't she just take it as a compliment?
You don't change minds by legislation, you do it by education. You cannot educate people by giving them totally conflicting messages. And yes, I am going to speak as an expert on this point. I think 25 years as a professional educator grants me that.
And yet...
HA! I think my wife's sharp intake of breath in that particular scene might disagree with you [ and be the reason I don't go to see Thor movies with her anymore]
I believe all those 16 year old girls I saw in the theater in Winter Soldier might also be some conflicting data.
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If ten years of recording The Young and the Restless for my mother have taught me anything, it's that characters in serial dramas are always happily in love...until they're not
“The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of altering their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit their views...which can be very uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.” - the 4th Doctor
pretty much aexception. I present you that demi moore movie, showgirls...any movie that guys enter a strip club to investigate something
I didn't watched magic mike, but the character is presented 3d and not only to women/men lust over
u can have a sex symbol, but also have a 3d character not only to appeal sexually to the public. that is what often happens on YA novelsHA! I think my wife's sharp intake of breath in that particular scene might disagree with you [ and be the reason I don't go to see Thor movies with her anymore]
I believe all those 16 year old girls I saw in the theater in Winter Soldier might also be some conflicting data.
That would make two exceptions now, then . Sure, there are a lot of movies where women play strippers for cheap thrills. Most of those movies like the two you mentioned get lambasted and they certainly do NOT get a highly profitable sequel... exactly because of the strip club dichotomy [which states that when a 40 something year old man goes to see 20 something year old women take their clothes off he is sleazy, but when a 40 something year old women goes to see 20 something year old men take their clothes off she is liberated and empowered - because, you know, sexist].
And the character being presented in 3D doesn't add to the lust factor? I would respectfully argue exactly the opposite.
Looking at it in that regard, it's not hard to imagine that some guys might think of the changes Phil talks about on WW as a good thing. After all, if it's okay for women to have men presented in a certain way for a mostly women audience, why is it wrong to have female characters presented in a certain way to appeal to an audience that is mostly men?
Edit - this is likely about where it will be pointed out that the portrayals of men for female audiences have been a lot less damaging that the reverse. And right now, that is likely true. However, I don't agree that it will take geological epochs for that damage to catch up in terms of day to day living. We are already seeing signs of men beginning to suffer the same kind of body issues that have been identified as a problem for women for decades.
So the question becomes - what do you want to do about this? Do you ignore it? Do you wait until it reaches the same level of problem as women face now? Do you do that and then wait a century more in the name of justice for all the women who suffered before social changes began? And in the meantime misogyny continues to have fuel to feed its propaganda, because there will be those who use this as evidence that sexual equality was never really about equality at all. And resentment will lead to anger, and anger will lead to action, and the cycle goes on...
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If ten years of recording The Young and the Restless for my mother have taught me anything, it's that characters in serial dramas are always happily in love...until they're not
“The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of altering their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit their views...which can be very uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.” - the 4th Doctor
Then they're not. Not yet. Personally, I would say that there is more gender equality now than there was, say, 75 years ago; but if you're going to insist that "equality" is not relative but an absolute, "all-or-nothing" proposition, then clearly, it has not yet been obtained. It could not have been; the last 150 years or so of gradual movement towards equality is just a drop in the bucket when weighed against the millennia of patriarchal history. Certainly there's still not as much sexualization of men in the media as there is of women, "Magic Mike" notwithstanding. That being the case, the page from Superman is just a tiny micro-drop in the bucket--or the teacup-- that you're trying to weigh against an ocean.
I don't think we should get into Orion again. It's a gaping black hole of threads. But I will say that the kind of question you're asking is only difficult if you ignore history. Women have been continually objectified and saxualized over time, and therefore it's probably the case that most women have become more sensitive to this kind of treatment than most men, and so we've developed informal cultural norms that are more protective of women in this regard.Claiming special privilege simply reinforces the arguments made by misogynists. It is only a good reversal of the norm if she is rebuked for it, as a man would be. What his panel shows is that what this person is doing is okay...which makes it ambiguous why its such a problem for Orion to constantly call Diana "legs". Shouldn't she just take it as a compliment?
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On what do you base this statement?
Incidences of sexism against women over the centuries can also be attributed to informal cultural norms. The point being that informal cultural norms are not always a good thing - especially when, but reverse logic of your argument, they offer one gender less theoretical protection than the other.I don't think we should get into Orion again. It's a gaping black hole of threads. But I will say that the kind of question you're asking is only difficult if you ignore history. Women have been continually objectified and sexualized over time, and therefore it's probably the case that most women have become more sensitive to this kind of treatment than most men, and so we've developed informal cultural norms that are more protective of women in this regard.
It also makes no difference if a significant percentage of men don't feel they need that protection. It should be extended equally to all members of society to use or ignore as they see fit, not limited in its application to a certain group because there is an "informal cultural norm" regarding how the members of that group are expected to react. That would be like saying "We don't offer positions in the military to women because most women would not want to be in the military."
If ten years of recording The Young and the Restless for my mother have taught me anything, it's that characters in serial dramas are always happily in love...until they're not
“The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of altering their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit their views...which can be very uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.” - the 4th Doctor