I'm not even disagreeing. In fact I'm more agreeing than not. She made a mistake in overlooking it. The only difference that I can tell is just that I''m not as strongly irritated with it as you seem to be. In retrospect not following up on this will be a mistake as everything is going to come together eventually into one big blow out, but hey, she's not perfect. She messed up. But I'm not going to use it as some sort of benchmark on how much she cares.