Maybe that purpose would be better served in its own thread?
Yes, there's shared history, an important piece missing when an alleged "Asexual" community tries to piggyback onto a historic movement.The inclusion of "T" doesn't mean it conflates with other orientations. The history of the terms LGB, and LGBT, was about building and accurately representing a community of people who share or support each other dealing with sexuality and gender identity issues.
No, it's not all about sex. However, speaking of sex, celibacy has been upheld as a higher moral, spiritual standard by many different religions around the world. Asexuality might be misunderstood, even ridiculed, but I'd argue with nowhere near the same vehemence as targets gay, bi, or Trans people. I'm hearing people try to frame Asexual experience in similar terms as LGBT, so, yes, I'll challenge that line of argument by pointing out exactly why that might constitute a shaky comparison.This is why asexual visibility is so important. Someone who cannot accept the concept of asexuality apart from their own experiences making tenuous claims about our struggles, and using "external" struggle to determine legitimacy. Internal struggle is still struggle, especially when it's coupled with or influences mental illness... which can be physical. And I'd call 'corrective' rape external struggle. Or negativity from religious communities ("you owe your partner sex").
Further, LGBT rights and visibility isn't only or all about sex, whether A or T is included or not. I was under the impression love, relationships, social dynamics, etc. were also applied.
You won't be shunned by your family because you want a platonic romance with a woman (hypothetical "you").
You won't lose your job because some right-wing ******* thinks you're "sinful", "perverse", or even just "icky".
Churches don't go out of their way to proselytize, pulpit-bash, or influence legislation against you. In fact, they'd likely high-five you!
Unless you're perceived as gay or lesbian, bashers aren't targeting you in the streets, either.
Politicians aren't trying to legislate 2nd class citizenship for you.
Internal struggle pits you against yourself for survival. If you want to politicize asexuality and stake a claim in the LGBT community, then, yes, expect people to point out the tenuousness of comparing those experiences. Personal angst is not the same as centuries of multidimensional oppression.
I thinking comparing the very real struggles of people targeted in your first sentence with the latter trivializes their experience.That's right. There is plenty of transphobia, sexism, racism in the queer community and I don't believe most people tolerate it. I don't, as well as asexual ignorance/dismissal/hate.
The Trans community fought that battle for decades. I think we're only seeing a real breakthrough in the past decade in the Psychiatric industry's dealing with Transgender concerns.These analysts and especially 'shrinks' treat asexual people as merely having sexual dysfunction or other mental illness that the patient does not actually have to be treated for. This is an institution that treats asexual people adverse to how they actually identify, think or behave.