Allow me to clarify. Peter giving his life for his children in-universe, means something, but in the context of the story, what did it do? It alienated fans of the character, it alienated the creators of the character to they point they did everything short of pulling out a Leonard/Howard the duck switcheroo to say 'this isn't our character', and gave new readers a rather inaccurate view of who she is (especially since as I mentioned before, the story where Peter died was in the same issue as a team-up with Ms. Marvel - I rather think a more classic-flavoured Spider-Girl story would have resonated more with the crossover audience). And why did this happen? Well, let's be honest the real reason is because Marvel decided controversy would be better (the same reason why the Amazing Friends, Spider-Man Unlimited, and the Hostess Spidey got killed). So Mayday went through the trite 'ooh she's really gonna kill this guy, see how vengeful she is!' plotline that we all knew was going to end with her deciding to take the high road like her father taught her. Because apparently that was the only way to secure her a place in Web Warriors, never mind that she was after the Ultimate Spider-Men, probably the most successful spin-off of Spider-Man, and one of the most successful superheroines Marvel created. And yes, even had a Halloween Costume. So I think it would have been possible for her to have made a big enough impact with the readers for her to reappear in Web Warriors, if that was the real reason for her plotline in Spider-Verse.
I can't believe I have to ask this but, you do know that Ben Reilly & Ben Parker are two different characters, right?
You know, avoiding 'She's Spider-Man, only as a girl' is why Frenz gave Mayday Reilly's costume in the first place.
Yeah, it's great to see creative people managing to fix flawed concepts. Just like Spider-Gwen's costume. And Silk's characterisation.
Apparently not, since this whole derail started because somebody did that:
No criticism of you, personally, just your writing. And then one thing lead to another.