That's one thing about Bendis' run (probably earlier than that too but it's the last place I saw it) that could do with some revitalizing. The X-Men books are fast becoming the ONLY place where mutant-human relationships are worn thin enough to become outright violence. And I don't know how to fix that. To put less emphasis on the hate and fear would downplay the theme of hate and fear that X-Men books go for in the first place. But to make the outside books more hateful/fearful would takeaway a lot of fun from books like Ms Marvel and Squirrel Girl, where most people would presume them to be mutants but don't act kn it in any way.