I think it's just hard for Brevoort to rule out the idea completely. But I do believe in all honestly that no one on any of the editorial staffs want to bring back the marriage.
I don't think they even think it's accepted, it's just that no one wants to go down that road. It's like the early issues of BND when they were teasing what happened between Peter and MJ, only for them to drop it completely after OMIT came out. It's a stuffed closet, you personally don't need to use it right now, and opening it will just be a hassle, especially since everything is clean for you. So you would rather let someone else do it, when you're not gonna be around to clean up the mess.I don't think the acceptance of OMD is as widespread as Breevort or Slott or Wacker or others would like us to believe. I think that, given the strong reaction it still incites, that there are very few that regard it as not being monumentally stupid and harmful to the reputation of the character. I think it will be sooner, rather than later, that we'll see this issue addressed. But I highly doubt that it's "Pretty close to nil" as Breevort insists. That sounds less like a "This is what we all believe" type of statement and more of a "Please stop asking about this because we want to do other things, and don't want to have to bring back something I don't personally like."
Like Marvel really benefited when there was no outside pressure for Peter and MJ from other mediums in the last 7 years. Not that many people know everything that goes on in Spider-Man anyways, so only the people that know have the problem. It's gonna be interesting to see what happens in 2016 for Spider-Man. If Mary Jane ends up being Peter's love interest in the movies, the outside group will wonder why they aren't together in the comics. And at that point it's heading into 10 years since OMD, which is gonna cause a lot of interest from everyone. But then at the same time I doubt anyone working at Marvel right now would be ok letting Peter and MJ get back together in 2016.