Originally Posted by
Dzetoun
Okay, at the risk of stepping into the line of fire, I think we need to take notice of something that one of the authors, Tim Seeley actually, said with regard to Batman and Robin. To wit: it isn't real. It's all wish fulfillment in a world of magic and superheroes. No, Batman is not about mind-warping and child soldiers. The Robins are not abused by Bruce any more than they are permanently damaged by physical maneuvers that, in the real world, would result in shattered bones and permanently injured ligaments. And why aren't they permanently scarred and twisted by their training with Bruce? Because they are drawings that inhabit a two-dimensional world where they can defy anything, including death, simply by a writer saying they can.
Now, it's true that doesn't always make for the best, most satisfying, and most convincing storytelling. And it's perfectly fair and legitimate to point out when such fiats don't make for good stories. But just because the stories aren't always good doesn't change the rules of the fictional universe. Or, to put it another way, just because the plot may be poorly conceived or the writing unconvincing doesn't mean that it's any less "real" within the context of a universe that has no reality to it to start with.
So, Jason is reconciled to the Bat Family because the hostility wasn't working, everybody was tired of it and didn't want to go where it led, and the writers say it's over and they don't want to talk about it anymore. Cassandra Cain can beat anyone hand-to-hand until the writers say she loses, and then she loses, it's as simple as that. Dick Grayson is completely unharmed and unchanged by his experiences at Spyral because Seeley by God says so, and therefore it's a fact. Like it or not, there is no arguing with it's "reality."
In the case of Mother, she is about child soldiers and warping orphans mentally in evil ways. Batman is about rescuing orphans and teaching them to overcome their pain through extraordinary action. That isn't the way things would work in the real world. But this isn't real and it's not about legality, psychological accuracy, or sociological modeling. Perhaps it would be a better story if it were about those things, and perhaps it wouldn't. Be that as it may, this is a fantasy about heroes and villains, and when all's said and done it's going to be very clear which is which.