I am unsure what you are referring to here.
I would leave it at this being your way of viewing it and I dont agree with it unless this fictional group actually has a hive-mind like say Starro.
The modern Amazons have pretty much always been mistrustful because they've ended up getting stabbed in the back every time they've trusted someone who isn't one of them.
It's also presumptuous, you see one say something bad and you say everyone else must be the same untill proven otherwise.
That she was nearly hysterical and almost killed herself speaks to the volumes of empathy she felt, not the lack of it.
Not any more than claiming she's infertile unless you were the doctor that examined her.
Thing is that Perez and Azzarello are not the same people, even if they share hairstyles, and they didn't work from the same template, with the same goals in mind or even under the same rules. Azzarello came to DC with 1 story he wanted to tell, Perez had a dozen shorter stories where he also weaved in a world around Diana.
So effectively he only heard the noises. Plus you have to consider that he was a priest, who are prone to give exaggerated acounts of what non-believers get up to.
And I seem to recall Artemis arguing with Philipus regarding the strain the visitors were putting on their resources. Plus I dont recall we ever saw any of these civilians unless they were somehow part of a story... usually by getting killed.
You should read that line again because thats not what she's saying. But, when asked if the sailor could still be found and questioned, Khronika gave them a name of the Amazon he was paired with and that she had some idead afterwards, but was cut off by Ex before she could go into details, with it remaining at; 'there is a price for laying with an Amazon'.