I think you're looking at it the wrong way. Someone not wanting the race (and everything that comes along with it) to be completely ignored doesn't mean they want to be defined by their race. A persons race is just one aspect of who they are, but it also impacts how they interact with society at large.
I don't think anyone would expect you to feel defined by your race as a white male, but that's because you're seen as the default, especially in the United states. For instance, if you were raised in an environment where you were the ONLY white person and you rarely saw someone who looked like you in the media you'd be more aware of your whiteness. But in the U.S. it's not something you even have to acknowledge.
For someone like me though it's something I have to acknowledge at times because I'm not seen as the default. I always use the example that I once won an office raffle, and the prize was voucher for a tanning salon.....I'm a dark skinned black man, what the hell am I supposed to do with a voucher for a tanning salon. The people in the office obviously meant no harm in it, but when coming up with the prize they viewed themselves and their experiences as the default and just assumed it'd be a nice gift for everyone. They ignored the race of every black person in the office and in doing so ignored that what might be cool for them might be utterly useless to me.
For me, while I completely agree with what Miles was saying about how a hero shouldn't be judged by the superficial things such as race, gender or orientation (which as a black comic book reader, I sympathize with), I also find it incredibly hypocritical from Marvel's standpoint. Now if Marvel had been essentially Miles in making the point that a character shouldn't judged on such things they'd have a point but instead they've been the Youtube girl putting emphasis on the fact that they have a black Captain America, that they have a black Spider-Man, that Thor is a woman, ect. In fact, I remember Bendis putting emphasis on Miles being black back when he first revealed him complete with a story of kids on the playground pretending to be superheroes but a black child being told that Spider-Man is white and how he was making a Spider-Man that his black children could relate to. For me, one can't really advocate that race shouldn't matter when they themselves have shoved the race of the character as a selling point.
I don't think anybody really has a problem with Miles not wanting to be defined by his race and not wanting to be know as "Black Spider-Man". What people are taking issue with is Miles not realizing why him being black might be important to others.....but like many of us have already theorized it's likely going to lead to Miles having a "wake up call" of sorts.
They kinda need to maybe figure out a new name for Miles superhero identity. He may want it, but I don't think he's ever gonna be known as just "Spider-Man". I can see not wanting be referred to by his race or anything like that, but he's always gonna have something extra to the Spidey name to differentiate him from Peter.
Imagine describing a battle or any scene in the comic to someone calling them both just Spider-Man. you would at least have to call one Spidey A or Spidey B or something like that.
It seems kinda confusing to have 2 guys running around with pretty much the same power set (with some differences here and there) and very similar costumes (the web pattern, eyes, chest symbol, etc.) with the exact same name. For both in real life and in-universe. When in real life talking about 'em, we gotta say Miles or Ultimate/New Avengers Spidey, and say Peter or original/616 Spidey so people know what Spider-Man we are talking about. Most of the other spider-Characters have either completely different names from each other, a name different enough we know who they are without confusion, are dead, or live in different universes most of the time. (what do they call Spider-Man 2099 in-universe? Is he just "Spider-Man" too?)
I mean, Pete's gotta get back to basics and be in New York full-time at some point, right? Are they both gonna be in the same city? What are the citizens of New York gonna call them? When the other superheroes talk about them are they gonna have to refer to them by first name so they can attribute a specific deed to that Spider-Man?
I guess maybe you could go by costume colors, just call Peter the red and blue Spidey and Miles the red and black Spidey. But have the black in this case refer to his actual costume, seeing as how it is mostly black.
Marvel is trying to have their cake and eat it too....
They're doing the same thing with Captain America. Instead of giving one of them a different code name they're just gonna have them BOTH be Captain America.
I will say though in the case of Miles/Peter there's already a bunch of Spider-Men running around.
No they don't
Nothing wrong with using their first names, at this point in time people are aware of all three men who call themselves Spider-Man and know their secret identity names, at one point at the same time we had Julia and Jessica using the Spider-Woman name and nobody complained but now suddenly there is a issue because of short term memory reader problems? This is like when both Bruce and Dick wore the cowl and people just wanted to complain about it and not use logic and reading comprehension
Maybe but given how many decades we've had that what's wrong with a break, especially since people say they want new stories with classic characters but then cry fowl when they do saying they really just want the same old thing with no changes
Sure why not
Spider-Man
Probably, behind closed doors as seen in comics most times they do refer to others by their actual names
Ironically enough Miles would be the "black Spider-man" since his costume is predominantly black so his ignoring race, it isn't wrong.
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One thing I do find interesting about this new run so far is the change of disposition with how Miles views being Spider-Man. In both of the Ultimate Series he felt more resigned to the mantle. In the main universe, so far he's been fanboying over the idea of being a Super Hero.
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