LOLInteresting. You equate "masculine" and "in charge" with:
*bullying (destroying the truck driver's rig)
*being a dullard (no time spent in continuing education, just wandering like David Banner in TIH, failing to use his brain in his fight with Zod and his crew instead of just resorting to violence)
*completely ignoring the characterization of Superman as a character who "always finds a way," and who, instead, resorts to violence and ultimately, murder, not to mention irresponsibility which leads to widespread collateral damage and death
I sincerely hope you aren't teaching these ideals of masculinity and assertiveness to any male children
I equate "masculinity/toughness" to making the hard choices. Taking the blunt of something for the better of everyone else. That's a hero. Superman doesn't leave the fight with Zod to someone else, he handles it himself. He does kill him, yes, but only when presented as no possible other way. If he hesitates, millions more will die. This isn't even the first time Superman has killed a verison of Zod. He killed him in Bryne's run and he killed him in the Donner films. It may not be my "perfect take" but it's valid.
As for bullying? Superman has always done stuff like that in the comics. ALWAYS. His first appearance, he's smashing a car into a rock. The car was driving away from him. It's a hallmark of his character. Plus that dude was being HORRIBLE and that taught him a lesson. Superman isn't opposed to teaching a good lesson from time to time.
As for being a dullard? Gee, thanks for insulting anyone who doesn't go right to college in a country that prices most working class kids out of the running anyway. Though nothing really says Clark DIDN'T get a degree in this. He's clearly 30 in the beginning of the film. Besides travel teaches a writer more anyway, but that's just me.
Superman, as presented in MoS is a far more viable character for sequels than he has been in ages.