Originally Posted by
Dispenser Of Truth
Let's try breaking this down as if this were a real situation.
Pleasant, orphaned reporter Clark Kent learns he has a cousin Kara, though at first she's skeptical about their relation. He decides pushing against her isn't going to help even though she's in a rough situation, so he tells her she can make her own way in things, but he'll be there if she needs him. A few weeks later, Kara gets a boyfriend who actively assaults him and another family member in front of her, and while this guy strings her along, Clark has to get his friends together before this guy actually kills people and gets her to help him. She clears her head a little after that - they still don't have the kind of relationship he'd like to have with his only living relative, but they're warm - until she ends up in a gang that has most definitely killed people in the past, and she insists she'll figure it out herself; the only positive thing about the situation is that a former work colleague is there to keep an eye on things. She comes back, and god, maybe this time it'll all be okay, she's settled down, gotten a job, it all seems alright. But major personal circumstances take him off the grid for awhile, and when he comes back, he learns she's been gone, with no explanation. For weeks. He needs the help of a private detective to track her town, and when he finds her, she's strapped into a chair, by all appearances being tortured. He gets her the hell out of there...and then she screams at him that she doesn't need any help, and that she doesn't need to tell him about every little thing he does. That this guy has any response at all more gentle than "What the hell is wrong with you, you stupid godammned kid?! Do you have any idea how worried I - I just...I just could not possibly be more disappointed in you." speaks to some pretty superhuman restraint and level-headedness on his part.
Whatever. You decided you hate this dude because he doesn't act like a doormat and tell kids to drink their OJ, you'll have your guy back soon and you'll love him literally no matter what. I'm done with this.