I was in the same boat as the OP, watched the show then did some research on the comic, and after reading TONS of thread like this one(thanks to all who asked and answered!), I decided to get the following TPB:
Already received and read:
Daredevil: Back in black vol 1 (#1-5 2016) (gave it 3.5 stars because, while I liked the buildup, the ending was meh and I couldn't help but notice that if you were to remove Daredevil from the whole story, it would end the same way... also not a fan of the coloring,- at all -)
On their way as we speak:
Daredevil by Frank Miller vol 2 and 3 (#173 to 191 +219)
Daredevil: Born Again (#226-233)
Daredevil by Mark Waid Volume 2 (#11-21)
I decided to skip Miller vol 1 for the moment since I read that most of that volume is not written by Miller and has alot of "meh" stories.
As for the Waid volume, I got it right now because it was selling at it's lowest price ever on amazon so I grabbed it, but won't read it until I catch up on most of the stuff writen before and get vol 1.
Based on all the posts I read, it seems many resent Mark Waid run, but I figured that if the guy stayed on the book for 4 years, it means it was selling, so it means it must have been good somewhere, so I'll get it too
To be acquired as it comes out:
Current run of Daredevil, but only in TPB form. Really glad Marvel seems to be dedicated to collecting their books in TPB format now as I gave up on the unwieldy floppy format years ago.
To be acquired later as the budget allows it:
Daredevil by Ed Brubaker & Michael Lark Ultimate Collection book 1-2-3
Daredevil by Brian Michael Bendis & Alex Maleev Ultimate Collection book 3
Daredevil: The Man without Fear. - maybe, still not sure it's required -
Seems to be vanished?:
Daredevil by Brian Michael Bendis & Alex Maleev Ultimate Collection book 1-2
I seriously cannot find these two at any reasonable price. Gonna have to wait for a reprint I guess.