I hope new52 Superman comes back full time, and would probably be okay with him getting a few of SuperDad's memories or whatever to added to his own, as other new52 characters may be getting from their past selves, as long as he comes back. However, I don't think he will come back
Part of me would like to be persuaded that I should get the SuperDad books, or at least one of them (i.e. Superman *or* Action Comics), or at least one side book like the new Justice League. But I really have found SuperDad a boring and dislikeable character when I've read him, and I resent him taking my favorite character's place. I also dislike kid superheoroes in general, so his 10 year old son being one and being a huge part of the Superman and Action Comics titles for the first few months (And likely beyond) is a huge turnoff (Going by solicitations, it sounds like Superman is like that from the word go, whereas Action Comics eases us in, but they both get there).
So, this thread isn't about arguing about the merits of the two versions of Superman, really. Its about is there any way people like me can come to terms with this and embrace SuperDad? If so, how would we do it? Is there some way of thinking about it that I'm missing?
I mean, if they somehow do bring back new53 Superman, I assume I'll hear about it, either here and on the comic book sites if I stick around, or maybe word of mouth if I don't, and I can then pick up the titles from that point if it happens, and even could consider getting the back titles, especially if they are on sale, to see how things got to this "happy ending" if I want to.
But assuming my guy is never coming back, is there any good way to psych myself into liking the new guy and his son at least enough to buy and enjoy his issues? Should I even be trying to find that out, or just vote with my wallet and say its the entertainment company's job to present something I like enough to want to buy without psyching myself into it, and just move on?
I don't want to just stick around as a subscriber just in case or assuming my character comes back, because if I'm right and he doesn't, I'll have wasted time, money, and so forth, and set myself up for another grave round of disappointment. It also occurs to me that I should vote against this new direction with my wallet, in case that makes a difference along with other people doing the same thing (It probably won't, but it's not impossible).
I do love Superman, though. Is that enough? Should it be enough? How can I think of this in a way that'll make me want to read and enjoy the comics?