Originally Posted by
Quiver
There is a difference - a BIG, and IMPORTNT - difference between being able to understand something, and being able to fully understand the consequences of it.
As a cis, straight male, can I understand someone who is trans, or gay, or black, or female? Yes, because I am a person who has empathy for other people, so I'd like to think that just because someone is different from me in some way doesn't mean we are incomprehensible to one another.
...But, each of those different life experiences causes different things. I'm straight; I've never had to campaign to be given the right to marry someone I like just because we're the same sex. I'm cis; I've never had to deal with the disorienting feeling of "my body is wrong", or had to struggle with people refusing to accept me for who I know I am, rather than who they percieve me to be; I'm male, so a lot of the issues that women face regarding sexual harrassment don't apply to me (or apply in different ways); I'm white, and honestly, I shouldn't have to point out the influence that race can make on a person.
Can I understand someone who has those experiences? Yes. I can ask questions to non cis friends, I can read tumblrs about people who struggle with abuse, I can check online forums to see how people deal with transitioning.
However, I do not live with the life experiences those people have. I have to do the research; anything less than that is disrespectful in the extreme. And I do feel that cis white guys can write characters of different backgrounds; visibility is important, and one shouldn't have to be a part of a certain social group in order to show that.
But that's why there needs to be more diversity within creators, as well as within properties. The experiences -and thus perspective perspective of an Africa-American transwoman will be different from those of a cis, straght male, and those experiences will impact what they write.