Originally Posted by
godisawesome
I think you've got some good points, but I do think your previous arguments are a bit oversimplified. Understand, I'm not saying your wrong, or that you're ignorant or anything like that, just that a few more cues do kind of go against your point. For instance, you're right that in a comic book, there should be nothing inherently wrong with a character being killed in a random and almost nihilistic way; you need moments of tragedy to make some conflicts work.
The thing that makes TKJ's example worse to some people is all about context. There is nothing intrinsically wrong, story wise, with the Joker shooting someone and crippling them, not even if the character is female. But since TKJ came out in the 80's when comics first started ramping up their stakes and portrayal of violence, Babs being crippled wasn't quite as original or as random as it could be; for about a 15 year period, if a character was going to be injured or killed to motivate a character or test his resolve, they were almost always women. In each individual case, there's nothing too wrong with that, but cumulatively, it seems to portray 50% of the human species as only useful as "canon" fodder that can't defend itself. There's moral objections to that (it seems to infer that women are weaker than men in almost all ways, for one) and economic ones as well (it decreases female interests in comics if they have fewer characters to relate to.)
But that's not the only context issue. A Death In The Family is famous for one reason: a Robin is killed by Joker in it. And that's because the entire, multi-issue storyline fits that description. Jason Todd kicks off the main conflict himself, subdues more than a few villains in the arc, and his run-in with the Joker is a cruel twist of fate that sees him dead but dead in uniform, serving as Robin, and supposedly spending his last minutes trying to absorb a bomb blast to save his mom. It's very much a Jason Todd storyline that ends tragically. You are right that there was an attempt to pigeonhole Jason into a certain role in the story though; the little prologue at the start highlights all the events of his career that could be seen as painting a reckless and angry picture of him, when he wasn't that much different from other sidekicks at the time. But he was very much a major character in his last story, arguably even the main one for most of it. And please note: not only was Jason's last act in that story a courageous last effort, but he manages to help subdue Shiva, and the mission does end with Joker in packaged for a few months, giving the story a bite but present taste of Pyrrhic victory.
And again, it's context that makes Babs being crippled look far worse than Jason's death. As other people have noted, she was mostly in limbo before TKJ, which means the first reappearance of the character in years featured her as a victim. A victim out of costume, with very few lines, or even much characterization. There's honestly nothing in TKJ that would tell a new reader that this red headed woman is Batgirl if the text didn't. Now, regardless of the sex of the character, that kind of sucks for her fans. It's not so much an appearance as a plot point labeled with the character's name, and those are almost never fun, like when Manhunter started featuring dead ex-Manhunters who went out like chumps in embarrassing fashion. But beyond that, Babs and her injuries are also used as props to torture Gordon; the fact that the woman in the pictures is a crime fighter who's probably helped beat Joker more than once is completely inconsequential to the story, while the fact that even in the published addition it's implied that Gordon's seeing naked pictures of his daughter implies that her nakedness is what's relevant to the story.
And the animated film doesn't quite manage to make the situation better. Like in Death In The Family, the prologue of the film is used to paint Batgirl as a reckless and rash crime fighter who's out of her league. But it also seems clear that the most important part of her characterization is her sexual nature; her own character arc revolves around an out-of-character tryst with Batman with unfortunate undertones, while even her prologue's anatagonist takes time to make sure we know that he views Batgirl as a sexual object. Even for animated movies, Babs comes off looking worse than Jason Todd; at least his DtV still showed him combating the Joker when he went down and he was the centerpiece to the entire film.