Objects are innate in all stories though; there are thousands of throw-away characters that only serve a single purpose, both male and female. I don't see the problem with this at all. Yes, she was just caught in the cross-fires between two men and used to enhance someone else's story, but that happens all the time, not just to woman characters. It's not sexist or misogynistic or any of that other nonsense; if anything, it demonstrates their importance in the male character's life. Some people (not you, but some people) have this weird, irrational hang-up where if they see any woman depicted as stupid/sexuailzed/inept/neglected they automatically call sexism, even though it's a FICTIONAL woman and not reflective of what that author truly thinks about women. Since when do writers have an obligation to cater to their audience's wishes? It really does blow my mind.